19 November 2013

LETS CATCH THE THIEF!

                                               
                                                

What would you do if you find yourself in this situation? When you return home tonight, you find that someone has been there in your absence-an intruder, a thief! Quickly, you search through your belongings and find only one thing of value missing. Although angry, you are relieved that nothing else was taken. Besides, you reason, the stolen item is covered by insurance.

But by tomorrow night you discover that the thief has returned and taken only one thing of value, By now you are steaming mad, but you are still covered by insurance. Night after night you return home to find that, each day the thief has returned and taken one thing you value. Soon your insurance is cancelled –so that each the thief takes costs you dearly. Moreover, your neighbors say they never see the thief. What would you do?

1 November 2013

A PLAIN SHEET OF PAPER


Being happy doesn't mean you're perfect. It just means you've decided to look beyond the
imperfections 

                                      
                                           
Loneliness is not the absence of affection, it’s the absence of direction. You want to know why? If you want God to have your attention, find a need that nobody is meeting and give your life to it. Then u’d get his attention. Find a sky (talent)that the world have being overlooking and start grooming it so it can bloom then u’d see! Introversion is a dangerous pre-occupation with oneself. It leads to depression and negativity killing you slowly without your knowing. Because inevitably you always focus on what is wrong in your life instead of good. Remember an attitude of gratitude is the basic to all happiness. . .. . .if you find yourself in this place of personal devastation or dangerous pre-occupation, what do you do?

25 October 2013

OUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER


                                

I wake up every morning and still have this one thought hunting me, I have tried and really don’t know how to get rid of it.The more I try the more the accuser stands beside me to re-play the video of my past, But I vividly remember the preacher speaking that fateful morning in my Sunday school class that I have every right to control my life, speech, thoughts and even pasts. But it doesn't work here, am I an alien or something?

19 October 2013

CONVERSATION WITH MYSELF: MENTAL WORKINGS


I do not understand life, its processes and those involved; the lack of care and inhumane actions, some from friends, most from family. Nothing hurts more than having your own family turn its back on you when you need them the most. It hurts. It’s bad, it’s…sick.I really have to stop thinking this way though. If no one cares about me, at least I should care about myself! Is it my fault I was raped by my uncle? Is it my fault I got pregnant as a result? Is it my fault that I am not capable of taking care of a child and those who are supposed to help me turned their backs on me so family name could be protected? Will it be my fault if I have to give the child up for adoption…?

7 October 2013

ITS ALL ABOUT LOVE(EPISODE 3)



We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves.
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We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves.
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“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart” Helen Keller  



It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return but what hurts the more is not to get the courage to let the person know how feel. One sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out that you both are not meant to be and you just have to let go. 

Maybe God wants you to meet a few bad people (sounds weird) before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right one we would be grateful.
Love is when you take away away the feeling, passion and romance (sex, kissing, caressing) and find out you still care for that person. . . . I can imagine the thoughts going through your head now, is it possible? How can there be care without a feeling?

27 September 2013

MY MOODS AND I (SERIES)


DEPRESSION: CAUSE AND EFFECTS
Depression is nothing strange. People at different level experience it as a result of different circumstances, and in different areas of existence. It is no respecter of status and gender. Whether rich or poor, middle-class or lower-class, male or female etc. we are all prone to it and if you’re honest enough, at least with yourself as you check out the following situations and others I’d be showing as we journey in this discourse, if you identify with them, you’d realize, even if you didn't know before, that you had, are suffering, or likely to suffer depression. Let’s take a little imagination tour.

26 September 2013

DAIRY OF A SEX ADDICT

                                                                            

A leopard can’t change its spots. This old saying is true of leopards, but is it also true of 
people? Particularly those with sexual spotted lives? . . . .Many times we hear “You’ll never 
change”. Many females hear, “you are a bad seed”. .. Do you think it’s possible for people to change? The bible says, “With God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26). Even if we feel that our minds and hearts are defiled, Lets also remember that our God is our Redeemer------he is our deliverer  “You have delivered my soul from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling; I will walk before the lord in the land of the living (psalm 116:8-9)