19 November 2013

LETS CATCH THE THIEF!

                                               
                                                

What would you do if you find yourself in this situation? When you return home tonight, you find that someone has been there in your absence-an intruder, a thief! Quickly, you search through your belongings and find only one thing of value missing. Although angry, you are relieved that nothing else was taken. Besides, you reason, the stolen item is covered by insurance.

But by tomorrow night you discover that the thief has returned and taken only one thing of value, By now you are steaming mad, but you are still covered by insurance. Night after night you return home to find that, each day the thief has returned and taken one thing you value. Soon your insurance is cancelled –so that each the thief takes costs you dearly. Moreover, your neighbors say they never see the thief. What would you do?

1 November 2013

A PLAIN SHEET OF PAPER


Being happy doesn't mean you're perfect. It just means you've decided to look beyond the
imperfections 

                                      
                                           
Loneliness is not the absence of affection, it’s the absence of direction. You want to know why? If you want God to have your attention, find a need that nobody is meeting and give your life to it. Then u’d get his attention. Find a sky (talent)that the world have being overlooking and start grooming it so it can bloom then u’d see! Introversion is a dangerous pre-occupation with oneself. It leads to depression and negativity killing you slowly without your knowing. Because inevitably you always focus on what is wrong in your life instead of good. Remember an attitude of gratitude is the basic to all happiness. . .. . .if you find yourself in this place of personal devastation or dangerous pre-occupation, what do you do?

25 October 2013

OUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER


                                

I wake up every morning and still have this one thought hunting me, I have tried and really don’t know how to get rid of it.The more I try the more the accuser stands beside me to re-play the video of my past, But I vividly remember the preacher speaking that fateful morning in my Sunday school class that I have every right to control my life, speech, thoughts and even pasts. But it doesn't work here, am I an alien or something?

19 October 2013

CONVERSATION WITH MYSELF: MENTAL WORKINGS


I do not understand life, its processes and those involved; the lack of care and inhumane actions, some from friends, most from family. Nothing hurts more than having your own family turn its back on you when you need them the most. It hurts. It’s bad, it’s…sick.I really have to stop thinking this way though. If no one cares about me, at least I should care about myself! Is it my fault I was raped by my uncle? Is it my fault I got pregnant as a result? Is it my fault that I am not capable of taking care of a child and those who are supposed to help me turned their backs on me so family name could be protected? Will it be my fault if I have to give the child up for adoption…?

7 October 2013

ITS ALL ABOUT LOVE(EPISODE 3)



We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves.
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We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves.
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“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart” Helen Keller  



It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return but what hurts the more is not to get the courage to let the person know how feel. One sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out that you both are not meant to be and you just have to let go. 

Maybe God wants you to meet a few bad people (sounds weird) before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right one we would be grateful.
Love is when you take away away the feeling, passion and romance (sex, kissing, caressing) and find out you still care for that person. . . . I can imagine the thoughts going through your head now, is it possible? How can there be care without a feeling?

27 September 2013

MY MOODS AND I (SERIES)


DEPRESSION: CAUSE AND EFFECTS
Depression is nothing strange. People at different level experience it as a result of different circumstances, and in different areas of existence. It is no respecter of status and gender. Whether rich or poor, middle-class or lower-class, male or female etc. we are all prone to it and if you’re honest enough, at least with yourself as you check out the following situations and others I’d be showing as we journey in this discourse, if you identify with them, you’d realize, even if you didn't know before, that you had, are suffering, or likely to suffer depression. Let’s take a little imagination tour.

26 September 2013

DAIRY OF A SEX ADDICT

                                                                            

A leopard can’t change its spots. This old saying is true of leopards, but is it also true of 
people? Particularly those with sexual spotted lives? . . . .Many times we hear “You’ll never 
change”. Many females hear, “you are a bad seed”. .. Do you think it’s possible for people to change? The bible says, “With God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26). Even if we feel that our minds and hearts are defiled, Lets also remember that our God is our Redeemer------he is our deliverer  “You have delivered my soul from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling; I will walk before the lord in the land of the living (psalm 116:8-9)

10 September 2013

VICTORY OVER LIFE ASUNDER





"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I
cannot change, the courage to change the things I can,and the wisdom to know the difference". Reinhold Niebuhr

 Suicide is a dark topic. The church sees it as a sin. Starting in the Middle Ages the law made it a crime. Then suicide passed to the mental health profession. So, what is suicide? Sin? Crime? Mental Illness? All three?

30 August 2013

FAREWELL TO ADDICTION FEUD.

                                       
We have known great sorrow, but we have seen the power of the Savior turn our most devastating defeats into glorious spiritual victories.
                                   


We who once lived with daily depression, anxiety, fear and debilitating anger now experience joy and peace. We have witnessed miracles in our own lives and in the lives of others who were ensnared in addiction. We have paid an awful price in self-inflicted pain and suffering because of our addictions. But blessings have poured forth as we have taken each step to recovery. Having had a spiritual awakening,  we strive every day to improve our relationship with Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. Through the Atonement of Jesus Christ, we are healed.

Some people consider addictions to be simply bad habits that can be conquered by willpower alone,
But many people become so dependent on a behavior or a substance that they no longer see how to abstain from it. They lose perspective and a sense of other priorities in their lives. Nothing matters more than satisfying their desperate need. When they try to abstain, they experience powerful physical, psychological, and emotional cravings. As they habitually make wrong choices, they find their ability to choose the right diminished or restricted “Addiction has the capacity to disconnect the human will and nullify moral agency, It can rob one of the power to decide” Addictions can include the use of substances such as tobacco, alcohol, coffee, tea, and drugs (both prescription and illegal), and behaviors such as gambling, codependency, viewing pornography, inappropriate sexual behavior, and disorders associated with eating(Yeah).These substances and behaviors diminish a person’s ability to feel the Spirit. They harm our physical, mental, social, emotional, and spiritual well-being, If you suspect you are addicted and if you feel even the smallest desire to break free, we invite you to join us in studying and applying the principles of the gospel of Jesus Christ. We assure you that if you follow this path with a sincere heart, you will find the power you need, to recover from addiction, The Savior will strengthen you and you will come to “KNOW THE TRUTH, AND THE TRUTH SHALL MAKE YOU FREE” (JOHN 8:32).

29 August 2013

TRY SOMETHING NEW .


“YOU ARE NEVER TOO OLD TO SET A GOAL OR TO DREAM A NEW DREAM” .C.S.LEWIS



Photo: TRY SOMETHING NEW (“YOU ARE NEVER TOO OLD TO SET A GOAL OR TO DREAM A NEW DREAM”).C.S.LEWIS
               Someone once said, never be afraid to try something new. Sometimes we are tempted to give up because whatever we are doing doesn’t work .when that happens we have to try something new .As long as we are making progress in life, we will have new opportunities and face new challenges. We have dreams and goals that we want to pursue, but we also need solutions to challenges that we experience along the way. If we know what to do, then we need to do it; if we don’t, then we have the privilege of trusting god to guide us. The bible says we are to do what the crisis demands and then stand firmly in our place (Eph 6:13). Do what you can do and god will do what you cannot do.
               Many times we say we want something new and then when the new things come, they frighten us. New experiences and opportunities can be very daunting, but they don’t have to be. If we insist upon clinging to old methods, ideas, relationships or mindsets and refuse to accept or embrace the new, we aren’t going to progress in our lives.       
            You remember that God chose Joshua to succeed Moses as the leader of the Israelites and take them into the Promised Land. God gave him the daunting task of leading an entire nation into a new place, a place where they’d never been before. They knew they were leaving behind a terrible oppression and hard labour as slaves in Egypt, and they heard they were headed to a land flowing with milk and honey, but they had never seen that land before.it was going to be new to them. Their story, even though it took place thousands years ago, that teaches us some important lessons about new experiences in our lives today.
            The first question we need to ask when we face a new situation is, Is this Gods will for me? “The second is do I have inner peace about this” we also need to ask ourselves if we sense his presence in the new situation. If we believe it is Gods will, we can trust God to provide everything we need each step of the way. We need to “follow the ark’ instead of following our personal desires, fears, emotions ,our good ideas or the advice of others. We follow the ark by taking one step of obedience to God after another.

I’d rather follow God into a new and comfortable place than remain in a place that is no longer for me. . .


~~Therapymefactsoflife~


Someone once said, never be afraid to try something new. Sometimes we are tempted to give up because whatever we are doing doesn’t work .when that happens we have to try something new .As long as we are making progress in life, we will have new opportunities and face new challenges. We have dreams and goals that we want to pursue, but we also need solutions to challenges that we experience along the way. If we know what to do, then we need to do it; if we don’t, then we have the privilege of trusting god to guide us. The bible says we are to do what the crisis demands and then stand firmly in our place (Eph 6:13). Do what you can do and god will do what you cannot do.

16 August 2013

ITS ALL ABOUT LOVE (Episode 1)


 
Love,its simple isn't it?you love your family and your Friends and they love you back . . . . .‪#‎smiles‬ you find a partner whom you love,and who loves you too..And you don't even have to try,it just happens.

LEFTHANDERS DAY!

                                                 Photo: LEFT HANDERS DAY 
     Yeah!its left handed day and its being celebrated. . . .This reminds me of that bible saying that says we were created in Gods image and likeness.I mean there was no mistake after all. . . he made us perfectly even with the left handed thing.
    All those folks in the 70s and 80s who made their left handed kids struggle to use their right hands maybe kicking Themselves right about now.As it turns out left handers have certain advantages than  right handers especially in piloting a JET. Neuropsycology suggests that left handed people are faster at processing multiple stimuli than righthanders and so they should be used more often.

         Now i see why our heavenly father choose Ehud in the Bible (Judges 3;12-15) to go with the Israelites to defeat the moabites. . . he-he God can be indeed mysterious!. . .doesn't this tell you something?That no ones creation had a mistake?do you know that left handers have the finest handwriting?

#HAPPYLEFTHANDERS DAY#
#THERAPYME#

Yeah! its left handed day and its being celebrated. . . .This reminds me of that bible saying that says we were created in Gods image and likeness.I mean there was no mistake after all. . . he made us perfectly even with the left handed thing.

MAKE IT HAPPEN!

                                        Photo: "You are the way you are because that's the way you want to be.if you really wanted to be any different,you would be in the process of changing right now"!  
                If you have made a commitment to do something and you encounter difficulty,look for a solution to the problem.Without a commitment,you will look for an escape from the problem,and will generally find what you are looking for. 
                In all candor,there were long stretches of time when,despite my best efforts,i could not get a speaking engagement of any kind.That was discouraging,but not once did i consider abandoning my dream of being a psychologist and a speaker.   The difference between me and many other who want to be speakers and psychologists and have necessary talent is that i never let go of my dreams or the willingness to work towards achieving it.I had a dream,and the dream had me.

         Most people fail in there dream because of lack of commitment.COMMITMENT produces CONSISTENT,enthusiastic effort that inevitably produces greater and greater rewards.
          MOTIVATION gives you the "want to". Training gives you the "how to" and the combination produces the necessary creative ideas to be more effective in realizing your dream.COMMITMENT,DISCIPLINE, AND RESPONSIBILITY keeps you going when the going gets tough. 

#THERAPY ME FACTS FOR LIFE#
Inbox us for further questions. . . . .we love you all,but Jesus loves you more


"You are the way you are because that's the way you want to be.if you really wanted to be any different,you would be in the process of changing right now"!

If you have made a commitment to do something and you encounter difficulty,look for a solution to the problem.Without a commitment,you will look for an escape from the problem,and will generally find what you are looking for.

THE PAST... THE FUTURE


Photo: As human beings we have all grown to make our past known as our life style which is not good.we have grown and developed the habit that we now die in the prison called MEMORY .The only way you can be free from this ailment is by *facing the fact*forgiving the past & dealing with the shame

As human beings we have all grown to make our past known as our life style which is not good.we have grown and developed the habit that we now die in the prison called MEMORY .The only way you can be free from this ailment is by *facing the fact*forgiving the past & dealing with the shame

Queeneth Agubamah