Being happy doesn't mean you're perfect. It just means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections
Loneliness is not the absence of affection, it’s the absence of direction. You want to know why? If you want God to have your attention, find a need that nobody is meeting and give your life to it. Then u’d get his attention. Find a sky (talent)that the world have being overlooking and start grooming it so it can bloom then u’d see! Introversion is a dangerous pre-occupation with oneself. It leads to depression and negativity killing you slowly without your knowing. Because inevitably you always focus on what is wrong in your life instead of good. Remember an attitude of gratitude is the basic to all happiness. . .. . .if you find yourself in this place of personal devastation or dangerous pre-occupation, what do you do?
*Don’t panic, just analyze it and make sure your not lying to yourself. its your problem you must solve .
*seek worthy counsel without doubt and expect God to move.
*Guard your mind with all your heart and remove hindrances.
*fight back (James 4;2) and see the big picture of victory.
Never give up because you are a winner that is tired of loosing and has decided to get up once more. Always remember that even God accepts the rejected ones (losers) because its not the weakness of the gospel it is the strength of the gospel.
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If it is from a past relationship then don’t enter into another one immediately, I mean don’t be in a hurry just take your time so you don’t end up taking pain killers just because of your unhealthy decision or choice. Remember and be careful, when you don’t value yourself you tend ton attract the same people who would do the same it’s like a magnet. You deserve better, so hold out for it. You train others to treat you how you treat yourself. HOW DO YOU TREAT YOURSELF? like a king or queen? Or like a pauper?
“do take it step by step, one day at a time and don’t forget to rejoice, for your best days are still ahead of you not behind you”
Take control of yourself and don’t let someone do those steps for you. You have to discern what success is and the kind of success you really want to achieve, prayerfully set goals (prov 16:9),stop looking for somebody that would bring you happiness and get over the past.
“do take it step by step, one day at a time and don’t forget to rejoice, for your best days are still ahead of you not behind you”
Take control of yourself and don’t let someone do those steps for you. You have to discern what success is and the kind of success you really want to achieve, prayerfully set goals (prov 16:9),stop looking for somebody that would bring you happiness and get over the past.
Lets learn how to develop the right attitude toward ourselves by hating our sins not ourselves, stop being pessimistic, never be afraid to say u’ve made a mistake, don’t despise your weaknesses, realize that your talents are special gifts from God and never stop learning. Because the greatest tragedy that would happen to you would be to grow old and know that somewhere along the line you lost yourself and never succeeded at being who God called you to be so beloved toughen up and don’t get soaked up in your past.
if you let criticism steal your individuality, rub you off your creativity and stop you from fulfilling your destiny. Insecure people will always criticize you; especially if your choices are different from theirs
Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it.
Queeneth (@Queeneth Agubamah)
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